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Do Play a Bit Hard to Get with your ex

#1 Rule: Do Play a Bit Hard to Get With Your Ex

Once dumped in your relationship, it becomes difficult for an individual to get along easily with his/her ex. The pain and agony you had from the failure of your relationship makes you carry a little grudge in your mind for your ex Still, it’s hard to know how to act around your ex. My advice in this situation is to play a bit hard to get with your ex.
Nothing is actually wrong in giving the impression that your ex cannot win you back just by snapping their fingers. If you do not present yourself as challenging and adventurous, changes are your ex will lose interest in you. To keep the fire on, play a bit hard to get and make them work to get your attention.
Control your feelings: Make sure you are not talking to your ex when you are feeling upset, mad, frustrated, jealous or overcome with any excess of emotions. Prepare yourself ahead of time to be pleasant and non-emotional when you do talk to him or her. You should be friendly and polite, but don’t act like talking to them makes you all emotional.

*One tip that is very good to try is that when he calls you on the phone, even if you know its him, ask “Who’s this?” The fact that you are asking him, subconsciously tells him that he is not your priority!.
Be careful, If he gets mad or jealous, just calmly tell him, that it was just a response no big deal, and play it off, but do not apologize.
Now here is the kicker! 2 minutes into the conversation, politely say, “Hey is it okay if I call you back later, you called me in the middle of something”, but do not call him back. This will defitenily tell him that you are moving on and he is dangerously close to falling off your radar.

Be innovative, forget past and don’t let your past dictate all your actions in the present change your routines and make your ex feel that you have come up with innovations in your life. Become more attractive and presentable. The more changes you make and new things you do will just add to your appeal. Your ex will be more eager in knowing what else is going on in your life and that in turn makes you more of a challenge.
Be Elusive: Don’t be a pushover where your ex is concerned. Be somewhat elusive after all things are readily available don’t carry as much importance as those that you have to work for.

“Same goes for people: a hard to win person is more desirable than an easily won one.”

Take your time: If your ex is trying hard to get you on your mobile via text messages or on you email, take your own sweet time to respond, Don’t answer every communication and when you do remain casual.
Take help: Always take help from close friends and involve them in your plan of playing hard to get with your ex. They can help you to keep a distance from your ex which would otherwise be difficult amidst the flow of emotions.

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Step Three: Lick your wounds

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Step Three: Lick your wounds

Lick Your Wounds

Self Repair

I know the break up has left you with many invisible scars.  Now we are going to heal you, so that you are truly ready to approach your ex and request reconciliation.  All the healing steps I will share with you will raise your Personal net worth.  The goal here is first and foremost about you.  We want you to feel better about yourself.
Feeling better about yourself is valuable in its own right.  But, there is a side benefit to your own self-healing:  you will become more attractive to your ex!
Keep remembering as you self-care that you are actually helping your relationship.

Why?

People who love themselves are more attractive to others.  In doing so, you will increase your chances of getting your ex back.

But, here’s the paradox.  You must not have any agendas as you engage in this self-care.  Do it for yourself and let go of any expectations of outcome.  Paradoxically, the more you surrender and detach from the outcome and the healthier you get, the more you increase your chances of getting back with your ex.
Healing The Soul.  When you’re physically ill, it’s time to be still and rest.  Similarly, when you’re emotionally upset or sick at heart, you need to sit still and do nothing.  This is your time for healing.

No Action.  During times of pain, it’s normal for people to go into action.  An unconscious way to discharge painful feelings is to engage in various actions, which include: eating, drinking, drugging, slashing photos, excessive spending, or love terrorism–calling, emailing, texting and stalking. But these actions are only a temporary fix, like a drug. In the long run these actions make the problem worse. While the action may temporarily release the emotional pressure, giving in to these urges will increase your chances of ending up permanently separated or divorced.

If you Cant Act, What can you do?
When you’re feeling like you can’t tolerate the painful feelings, force yourself to sit still and do nothing.  Sit on your hands if you must.  Break every finger of both hands if you have to. But don’t call, email, text or send out smoke signals such as calling mutual friends and family members, hoping that the message will get back to your ex. Also resist begging, pleading and engaging in convincing behaviors.  These are all turn offs.

 Lie Still and Hold Your Heart.
So what can you do when you’re going out of your skin with hurt, jealousy, despair, longing, emptiness, sadness or anger?

Lie on your left side in a fetal position and hold our heart, literally.

As you hold your broken heart, say aloud to yourself, nurturing, sweet, maternal words of comfort.

But don’t lie down for more than a few minutes.  Don’t stay in bed.  Don’t watch hours of TV. Don’t spend hours paging through your photo albums.  After you’ve held your heart, get up and do something self-nurturing like taking a bubble bath or treating yourself to a massage or pedicure.

If You’re Still Having A Meltdown, Breath.
If you sill find yourself overcome with pain, crying your eyes out, imagining your ex stepping out with someone else, panicking that you’re going to be alone for the rest of your life…breathe deeply.

Bringing more oxygen to your brain is often sufficient to calm the spirit.  Breathing can also stop a full-blown pain attach dead in its tracks.

If you’re Still Freaking Out, Give Yourself A Talking To!
Speak to yourself in a loving, nurturing voice, uttering affirming statements.  Remind yourself that no feeling lasts forever.  The acute pain will subside in a few minutes.
It’s also important to know that emotional meltdowns are always preceded by upsetting thoughts.
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Step Two: Letting The Dust Settle

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Step Two:  Letting The Dust Settle

Before attempting reconciliation it's vital that you retreat to seperate corners and prepare for your comeback.
In this article, I discuss the reasons why your ex boyfriend needs time and why you do to.
I know being seperated from your beloved makes you feel frantic, like you have to hurry and get your ex back before it's too late.
But Wait!

Neither you nor your ex is ready for contact let alone reconciliation.
First let's talk about your ex's need for some breathing room.
Your ex left for a reason.  He or she has been unhappy with the relationship for some time.  That's why your ex left in the first place!  Even though the break up may have occurred abruptly, you need to realize that, for your ex, it was a long time coming; the split did not materialize out of nowhere.
It's important for you to remember that your ex isn't in the same headspace that you're in.  You've been left and you want him or her back.  But he or she left because the relationship wasn't working for him or her.  The last thing your ex wants right now is to come back home.

This last statement is all the more true if you are the one who left, but have had a change of heart.  You now have even more of an uphill battle of regaining and rekindling feelings of love.
As much as you want to get your ex back, you need to consider what happens when you try to change somenone's mind: The walls get taller and thicker.  The resistance grows stronger.
As Ignatius of Loyola, the famous mystic and founder of the Sesuit Order said regarding influencing others:  “You should enter through their door but have them leave though  yours.”
Or to quote the popular phrase, “If you can't beat 'em join 'em.”  To dissolve your ex's resistance to reconciling, you must put your foot on his side of the emotional fence.  Don't try to talk your ex out of his anger, doubts, fears and dissappointments.  You need to get inside your ex's heart and head and truly understand where he is coming from.  Joining the resistance is the first step toward dissolving the wall that separates you now.
At this point, the only appropriate communication is a one-time handwritten note, email or voicemail message (yes, I mean call when you know that you can't talk live!)  that you have been thinking it over and you're beginning to realize why he was so unhappy and felt that breaking up was the only answer.  That's it. Hand up, put a sock in it, click “off,” shut up.  You get the point.

If you are the one who did the leaving, your version of the message should be some version of: “I am sorry I was not able to meet your needs,” or “I understand better why I was not able to meet your needs.”
This message is going to percolate in your ex's mind and heart and begin the healing process for him. Yes, I do mean that your ex needs to heal too.  It's important for you to keep in mind that your ex is hurting as well. If he left you, then in his mind you did a lot of things wrong.  Up to this point your ex hasn't felt that you truly understood his feelings.  If your ex had felt understood by you, truly understook, he wouldn't have left in the first place.  The way to change that perception is to show that you're now aware of and concerned about his feelings.

In the case where you initiated the breakup, making this statement will be even more intriguing, since in your ex's mind, he somehow let you down.  Now you're turning the tables and saying that you feel you let him down and were not able to meet his needs.  Of course, this has to be sincere, so think about whether or not this is true.  I bet if you look closely enough, you will find that no matter how much your ex let you down, you let him down as well to some degree.  Remember what I said in the beginning: relationships fail because both parties are not meeting each other's needs.

It is also true taht sometimes people will break off a relationship becuase they don't know how to give or relate to another person and don't have the emotional ability to meet their partner's needs.  This in turn makes them feel inadequate, and they terminate the relationship becuae it is not making them feel good about themselves.

It is also very important to remind yourself that you want to control yourself especially when it comes to your ex.  Remember, if you don't control yourself at home, you won't lose your job, you'll lose your relationship.

Until you are skilled at properly handling your emotions, you are far from ready to approach your ex.  Now, I want you turn to yourself, chill out and heal.
The more healed you are the more attractive you will be to your ex.  Let's face it; wounded pups aren't that attractive.  Nor is desperation, insecurity, begging, pleading, following, and generally pushing too hard and too fast.
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How This Website Came About

I want to share my story with you.  The fact that you are reading this right now, I suspect means that your own situation is similar to how mine was.  I want you to take confidence from the fact that I was able to turn things around completely.  If I could do it, you can too, and I’m going to show you how, just like I have shown hundreds of others before you.
 BEING IN LOVE
My story starts like so many, I was in love.  I was completely head over heels in love with a man, a wonderful kind caring man.  He was the kind of man I had dreamed about meeting.  He had many beautiful qualities, but the best of all was that he loved me back.
Being in love with someone who feels the same way about you, is the most amazing feeling in the world.  Perhaps you have experienced that feeling as well?  When I was with him, I felt like I was complete.  When we were apart, it was like a part of me was missing.  Although I didn’t know it at the time, that was part of our undoing, but I will get to that later.
We were together for three years when things started to go wrong.  My man, I’ll call him James although that’s not his real name, started becoming distant.  It wasn’t a sudden thing, it started, although I do know how.  He started working late.  At first, just a few days a week.  But he started coming home later and later, and before very long, it was every evening.
I was convinced he was seeing another woman.  I couldn’t understand why though.  Everything between us had been so good.  Why did he feel the need to start seeing someone else?
Of course, I confronted him over this, and at first he denied everything.  We would end up arguing, and with time, the arguments became screaming matches, and one or other of us would invariably storm out of the house, and I always ended up crying.
 BREAKING APART
I desperately wanted things to be like they were before.  I wanted to snap my fingers and make everything right again, but I couldn’t do anything right.  James started staying out all night.  Then one horrible day, my worst fears were confirmed when my best friend called to say she had seen him out with another woman.
When I put that to him, he broke down and confessed all.  He told me that yes he was seeing someone else.  But the worst was yet to come.  James then told me that he was moving out of the house, and was going to move in with this other woman.
As he spoke those words, it felt like he had plunged a knife into my chest, and cut out my heart.  Everything that happened in the days that followed became a kind of blur.  I felt a strange detachment, like nothing was quite real.  My mind couldn’t keep up with the endless questions that were racing through it…Why had this happened?
What had I done to deserve this?  Why me? Why now?  What could I do to stop it?
Within a few days he was gone – he had taken his belongings and left.  The last time he closed the door behind him, I collapsed on the floor, unable to control the floods of tears…the agony…the writhing pain in the pit of my stomach.  I wanted to die.
I felt worse than alone – I felt like a huge part of me had been cut out and taken away.  I was overwhelmed with a feeling of total helplessness.  And still the questions kept coming…the biggest of all were “Why has this happened?” and “How can I fix this?”
LIFE BECOMES MEANINGLESS
In the weeks and months that follow James departure, my life quickly degenerated.  My work suffered, my health suffered, and even my friends didn’t seem to want to be around me.  Why would they?  I was no fun to be with, I seemed to bring a cloud of gloom into any room I entered.
Those friends that I did still see tried to help, but they didn’t seem to understand how I felt.  In fact, in their efforts to try and comfort me, they only seemed to make matters worse! They would say things like “He was cheating on you, you’re much better off without him” or “There are plenty more fish in the sea!” – I wanted James?!  Nobody could answer the questions that kept me awake every night…Why did this happen?  How can I fix this?
 MY QUEST
Slowly I began to realize that if I wanted to get answers to those questions, I was going to have to get them myself.  And so began my quest for the truth.  It was a journey that took me half way around the world, as I sought out those who held the answers.  Little by little, I learned some of the most fundamental secrets of life.  Sometimes the truth was hard to bear.  But by accepting it, I was able to move on step by step.  As I applied what  I learned, I turned my life around.  I won back James, and I won back my life.
YOU CAN GET BACK YOUR EX
Now I am going to share with you the same life secrets that I learned.  I am going to tell you the principals of life, what makes things happen the way they do.  Then I am going to put everything together into a practical seven-step formula that you can put into practice to win back your ex, or save your relationship.  And you’ll improve your life immeasurably at the same time.
Some of what I am going to share with you might seem a little difficult to believe, or hard to swallow.  But I urge you to bear with me.  Think about everything I say. Try what I propose.  I have helped hundreds, probably thousands of couples.  These teachings are based on fundamental  truths, universal laws.  They apply to everybody.  You can choose to accept them, and work with them to your advantage, or you can choose to deny and ignore them, and remain powerless and unhappy.
Part One – Realize Your Power
The first universal truth that you must understand, the first step to turning around your life, is to realize that everything that happens in your life, happens as a result of you.
You create your own reality.
I mean this in every sense.  You create your own reality on every level.  On a physical level, everything you do shapes what happens around you.  And at an inner level, the way you perceive what happens around you also shapes your reality.
This has profound implications.  But before we get into those, let me help you better understand how you are in complete control of your reality.
Have you ever wondered why some people seem to be born lucky?  Some folks win all the competitions, they seem to get all the money, all the good stuff life has to offer just seems to flow their way?  And at the same time, some people seem to attract bad luck?  The key word here is attraction. Everything that happens to you does so because of the universal law of attraction. This is something that is well understood by highly successful people. The law of attraction has created great fortunes.  It has also created massive poverty.
The law of attraction simply states that you get what you ask for.  If you believe strongly enough that something will happen, it will happen.
This is the basis of prayer.  It is the basis of ‘wishing’.  It is the basis of magic.
Every society and culture has it’s own way of packaging the law of attraction into something that is acceptable and believable, but the underlying universal law itself is the same.
But there is a big problem with this law.  As I have said, when you believe in something strongly enough, it will become your reality.  And the problem is that most people find it easier to believe that bad stuff will happen to them than good stuff.  And so bad stuff does happen to them!
Think about this for a minute…Have you ever thought that something bad was going to happen, and then it did?  This happens all the time!
Now you might be saying “I didn’t ask for my relationship to go wrong!”  But the fact it did go wrong is evidence to the contrary.  Take my own story as an example.  James started coming home from work a little late. At first, it was once or twice each week.  Although I didn’t know it (because I never thought to ask), James was hoping to get a promotion. He was working on a big project for a potential new client, and he wanted to make absolutely sure that he won over his client, in order to convince his boss that he deserved the promotion.  Naturally this extra work meant he finished working late some days.  That was his reality, and the reality of the situation.
In my mind though, I was already scared of losing James.  He was the best thing that had ever happened to me, and deep down I felt like I didn’t deserve him.  Although I was very grateful and happy that he was with me, I always had this little niggling feeling that somehow there was a mistake, that I didn’t deserve James.  I worried that one day he would decide that being with me was a mistake.
So when he started coming home late, my immediate reaction was to think that my worst fears were being confirmed.  I imagined all sorts of scenarios.  He was seeing other women.  He was laughing at my behind my back.  He was planning how he would leave me.  Every time he came home late, I would run these scenarios through my mind.  Each time, they would become more and more real. I was more and more convinced he was cheating on me.  So of course, when he did come home, I would bombard him with questions about where he had been.  Why hadn’t he called?  What did he thing he was doing?  I never stopped to consider other, more positive possibilities.  Now imagine this from James’ point of view.  He was working late to try win a promotion, which would mean a better life for both of us. And yet when he got home after working hard, what did he get?  A loving partner who asked how his day had gone? Who offered sympathy for his long hard day?  No!  He got bombarded with accusing questions!  How do you think that made him feel?
The longer this went on, the more James started to question what he was doing.  I was driving a wedge between us, and so when one day another woman did walk into his life, he seized the opportunity as a means of escape.  In my mind, he was having an affair, and the terrible way I had acted drove him to actually start having an affair!  I had created my own nightmare reality.
How different things would have been if I had not been the suspicious and controlling partner.  If, instead of battering him with accusations when he got home late, I had instead offered support and comfort for his hard day, then when that other woman walked into his life, he would never even have given her a second glance!  This happens all the time.  I have coached countless people who have lost their lover, and in every single case, they have eventually been able to see that it was their own actions that created their situation.
And so even when we think we are acting in the best interests of the relationship, often we are working against it.
Human beings are essentially selfish creatures.  We see things from our own point of view with ease, but we have difficulty considering other points of view.
Coming to terms with the fact that it was my own actions that had destroyed our relationship, was one of the hardest things I have ever done.  Up until the time I learned and understood the law of attraction, I was convinced that it was James who had been at fault.  After all, he was the one who had had the affair!  But it was my own actions that drove him to it, and those actions came about as a direct result of what I thought about.

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A Simple Exercise
Action Point:  If you are in any doubt as to the power of the law of attraction, and it is understandable – normal even – then here is something you can try today which will prove it to you.  It is a very very simple experiment, but I urge you to try it, as it proves the concept, and this concept is fundamental to life, and to getting your relationship back on track.  For the rest of today, I want you to picture in your mind’s eye that is, imagine an image of , an elephant.  I am assuming that you do not have daily contact with elephants.  Think about the elephant as often as you can, over the course of today and tomorrow.  Think of an elephant before you go to sleep, when you wake up, when you eat, when you drink.  Think of the elephant when you check the time, and when you brush your teeth.  And over the course of the next 48 hours, keep your eyes, your ears, and your mind open, and you will without doubt, during that time, either see a picture of an elephant, see a real elephant, or hear talk of an elephant.
This is just a very simple demonstration of the law of attraction.  How often do you see elephants?  Not every day, I am sure.  And yet if you concentrate hard enough, somehow an elephant will be attracted into your reality within 48 hours. You can repeat this experiment as often as you like, by thinking about other people or objects.
You’ve Already Done This
You probably already Done This
You probably already have practical experience of this same phenomenon.  How often have you found yourself suddenly thinking about an old friend or relative that you have spoken to in ages, only to have them call you out of the blue the next day?  This is the law of attraction in action!
The law of attraction applies to everyone.  We are all created equal when we come into the world, and yet some people get all the good luck and others all the bad luck.  Some make all the money.  Success seems to attract success.  Money goes to money.  The reality is that lucky people aren’t any different to unlucky people.  Luck is simply their reality!  They are used to winning, they are sued to good things happening to them.  That reinforces their beliefs, they expect good things to happen, and the law of attraction means that good things do happen.
Exactly the same thing works in reverse.  Unlucky people expect the worst, and so of course, they are not disappointed.  They attract bad luck.
When you accept the law of attraction, you must accept that you are, one way or another, responsible for the failure of your relationship.
The good news is that the very same universal law means that you are capable of saving that relationship.  Later on, I’m going to give you the framework to do just that.  But before I do, there are some other truths that need to be understood.

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Searching your Soul: and Get your Ex Back

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How to get Your Ex Back

How to get Your Ex Back

Searching Your Soul

The end of a romantic relationship is always painful even if it seems inevitable.  It doesn’t matter if you’ve only been together 30 days or 30 years.  The emotional investment you have made in a relationship makes you feel like a failure when it ends, no matter the reason why.  Some people become depressed, even suicidal because the pain of a break up can be overwhelming.

As human beings, we are hardwired for relationships.  We depend on other people for a variety of reasons, but it starts from childhood.  As a child, we depend on parents or caregivers to give us food, shelter and protection.  We develop emotional attachments to provide stability, focus and a sense of identity.  We carry this need throughout most of our lives, choosing people outside our family to connect with to provide pretty much the same thing.  But things don’t always go as planned.

Even if your break up was gradual and you are far from devastated, you may still love your ex and think that continuing the relationship will be better for both of you.  There is no reason for a break up to be the end of the line for you or your ex, because emotional attachment is hardly a steady stream.  There are ups and downs in emotions, and the same applies in a relationship.  Even the best of relationships have their highs and lows.  A break up could be a result of one of those lows, and it’s up to you to make sure there’s a high in the offing.
This series will help you get your ex back in seven days flat!  You get your self-respect and your ex back at the same time.

Reasons Why
But before you embark on the more practical applications of this series , Day 1 will deal with the half of the equation that you can handle right now: YOU.
There are many reasons why couples break up.  The most common ones include:

Infidelity – either side cheats and gets caught
Boredom – there’s nothing new in your relationship; familiarity breeds contempt
Physical incompatibility – you have different ideas of what is physically desirable, whether in aspect or behavior i.e. your ex likes long hair, you like short
Emotional incompatibility – you have different emotional needs that may be mutually exclusive i.e. your ex needs you around all the time; you need some alone time on a regular basis
Psychological differences – you respond to situations that your ex finds incomprehensible i.e. you get angry when your ex leaves the toothpaste cap off or the toilet seat down or vice versa
Intellectual inequality – you feel you’re smarter than your ex and show it
Social differences – your ex hates your friends, family, business associates or vice versa
Failure to share expectations – you want kids, your ex doesn’t
Lack of trust – it could be with money, children, ability to work out problems, etc.
Lack of flexibility – you or your ex sticks to what is familiar and is unwilling to try something new
Lifestyle – you like to party all night, your ex prefers to stay at home with a book
Abuse – this can be physical or emotional; in this case it may not be a good idea or possible to look for a reconciliation.

In any of these cases, you always have some degree of involvement, even if it is of a passive nature.  After all, this is a relationship, and you need two to tango.  You may need to get some therapy to uncover the cause behind the reason for your breakup.  The apparent reason is not always the real one.  It is important to acknowledge exactly why the break up occurred before you can start planning how to get your ex back.  It will give you a head start on what you need to do, as well as ensure that it doesn’t happen again.

In a breakup, you don’t have to be the dumpee to feel the need to get back with your ex.  You could be the dumper and realize you’ve made a mistake.  But it’s too late; your ex has been hurt and has moved on.

It doesn’t matter whose fault it was, either.  In order for a relationship to work, there has to be no self-righteousness because it makes you quick to point the finger and relinquish responsibility.  For example, your ex cheated on you and so you, feeling betrayed, break it off.  But you never really found out why your ex felt the need to cheat on you. You have to do some serious soul searching to find out.

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10 Ways To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Fast

Some romantic break ups just aren’t meant to be, and are worth trying to repair.  Are you trying to get your ex husband or ex-boyfriend back?  The first thing that you need to do, is to determine whether or not this is actually what you want to accomplish.  Once you have made up your mind and have decided that you want to get your former boyfriend or spouse back, then some of the following, ten ways to get your ex boyfriend back, may be able to help.

1.    Take the time to figure out why the breakup occurred.  Is there something that you can change?  Sometimes people get comfortable in their relationships and let themselves go, and all it takes to repair this problem is to discover what it is and make a change.

2.    Never personally tell him that you want him back.  The odds are, he is missing you too. Play a little bit hard to get and let him remember why he misses you and wants you back.  Whatever you do don’t overplay this card, as it could have disastrous consequences for you.

3.    Take a look at how you present yourself.  Do you make an effort to dress up for your ex boyfriend, or are you too comfortable around him for that now?  If you used to dress more nicely and perhaps more provocative, consider going back to that.  If you dress to impress, he may find himself wanting you back.

4.     Get a little closer to his male friends to stir up a bit of jealousy.  Some times all that it takes is to remind him how much he wants you back by making him a little jealous.  However, a word of caution when using this tactic: it could possibly backfire on you, so dont overdo it.

5.    Think about how you talk to him, in comparison to how you used to talk to him.  Talk to him the same way that you want to be spoken to if you want to reignite a romantic feeling between the two of you.  Bring back the “sweet terms of endearment” you guys used when  you first fell in love with each other.

6.    Ask him out after you have formed a game plan, and show him that you can still have fun together with one another.  Don’t worry about complicating things by working out the issues now, just show him that you guys can still have fun and watch things reignite accordingly.

7.    Force yourself to be laid back and even confident when you are around him.  Do not stress yourself out worrying about talking things through with him.  Most guys prefer girls that know what is best for them.

8.    Don’t focus on him too hard.  Don’t outright ignore your ex boyfriend, but take some of your focus away from him and let him wonder about it.  Tell him you’re busy or just have a lot going on, rather than making it about him.  Let him sit and stew, and he may end up being the one rekindling things!  Once again don’t overdo it.

9.    Act like you know he cares about you, but that you’re not all together affected by it.  The moment he realizes you’re getting over him, he may be much more willing to do the chasing.  Let him remember how important you are and see what happens.

10.    Show him that you can have plenty of fun without him.  Don’t be mean in how you act around former lover, but show him that you’re having a good time with your friends and he may remember why he fell in love with you in the first place.

These 10 ways to get your ex boyfriend back are not set in stone and you should be flexible.  Use your common sense and allow the truthfulness of your love to shine through and hopefully your ex will be back in your arms before you know it.  How To Win An Ex Boyfriend Back With Class.

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What we're NOT saying is for you to spend every waking second praising your man and his studly good looks.  But there's gotta be a balance.  Sure, you might need to remind him to take the trash out.  But you don't need to couple it with nagging remarks to bring him down.
And sometimes they're just scared.  Scared of commitment?  Maybe.  Kim's college roommate had her heart broken after a month of blissful dating.  She wanted to know why it ended, but he couldn't give a reason-until 3 months later when he came begging for her back.  He said he was scared that he found “The One” at such a young age. Well, they're married now (clearly he got over that fear!)
Fighting about every little thing can also be a symptom that something else is wrong.  Frustrated men have been known to feel worthless when they see their women constantly upset with them.  Nothing they do can make their partner happy.  Whether or not they're actually doing right by you isnt the issue -the issue is they'll stop trying, which just leads to more fights.
Re-visit the blank numbered list we provided above and see if you can fill out more reasons for your split.

    WHY WOMEN BREAK IT OFF 

More than anything, women long to feel special.  Hopefully this is not news to anyone!  Almost all women suffer from some sort of insecurity, and it's up to their partner to help them forget about it.  Again, think about when you two first met.  You gave her flowers, di

dn't you?  You took her out for romantic evenings or wrote flirty cards.
We're telling you, you can never stop.  Maybe tone down, but never stop.  Women of all ages like to know they're appreciated for all the things they do to make your relationship or household run smoothly.  Most of the time, it's the littlest things that mean the most to them.  A simple “Wow!” when they walk down the stairs on a random Monday morning.  Or a special email just to say you're thinking of her.

   A note from Rick:
Guys, it's easy for us to  sometimes forget to do the 'little thing.' Mainly because we get wrapped up in the day or we think the “I love you” we said last week will hold up.  Ain't gonna happen.  Your girl will be tempted to get that admiration from someone else, and you definitely don't want that.

Women like to be listened to.  They're not always looking for an answer, just a loving ear.  They want to know they're important enough to turn off the TV and actually hold a conversation.  Look, there are going to be times when the romance isn't crazy-awesome.  But that's when the friendship part takes over.
Ignoring her will give her the go-ahead to look for greener pastures almost immediately.  The strong ones can hold out while their men treat them like a drinking buddy for years on end.  But most will start seeking another man to fill that void within 2-4 years.
Have you found any clarity yet?  The reasons are meant to help with those of you still pondering the motivation behind your split.  But some of you already know the reason, don't you?

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It's okay, break-ups are supposed to hurt. It's natural, expected and healthy to feel pain after a split. Don't get us wrong – it WILL get better. But sometimes things have to get a little worse before they can get better.

If you're reading this, you've just lost someone very special to you. The reasons behind the split are not important right now. What is important is that you are committed to getting them back. Not only do you miss them, but you realize something more – this is the person you're meant to be with.

We know it doesn't always help for someone to say, “I know what you're going through.” But look, we know what you're going through. You've most likely heard our story on another article, but we want to reiterate the importance of our very own break-up in relation to what your about to read.

About 2 years ago, we went through a very tough break-up, and as you know, got back together. This book is the culmination of everything we learned and experienced during our break-up and make up. You'll find this book basically broken up into 3 parts: First we are going to go through some “you time” where we give you several strategies to get your head right before we tackle getting y our ex back.
Next, we will walk through the tactics that will give you the absolute best chance of making up with your ex. And finally, we'll give you advice on how to make your get your girl back by text

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Now let's work together to figure our what the heck happened in your relationship, and how to fix it up. What can you expect from How to get your ex back right now? What you CAN'T expect is magic. This takes a positive attitude, time and some work.
Remember-this book is not meant to be lightly skimmed. We're going to work through each chapter together and begin to implement the various strategies necessary to get your ex back as quickly as possible. This ins not a 2-day process, so be patient, and you will be rewarded. Here's the good news: We're done all the hard work for you. Over the course of this book, we'll give you everything you need to get your ex back. This means time sequences, never-before -used psychological tactics, action steps, and much more.

Read the book, learn from it, and get your better half back in your life.

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The first thing you think when the love of your life walks out the door is “Why did this happen?” Sometimes the answer is staring at you in the face: other times it takes some soul-searching.

Don't expect to zoom past this chapter-understanding what caused the downfall in your relationship could be the very thing that could save it. Keep in mind – these tips only apply to couples who were actually in a loving relationship, not one-night stands. You ain't gonna find any “Why they're not calling” type-stuff in this book.
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First and foremost, cut off all communication with your guy right now.  You’ll send him a note–which I’ll describe in a moment – and that will be your only direct communication with him for seven days.

Here’s why:  First, cutting him off turns the tables on your interactions with him.  Right now you’re the one pursuing him.  He is the prize, not you.  By cutting him off using the method you’re about to discover, you turn him into the pursuer and yourself into the prize.
Second, if you communicate with your ex too soon –before you know what you’re doing, before you’ve put your life back together, before you’ve learned the secrets of how to attract him back — odds are you’re going to screw it up.

Anything you did now would be out of desperation, and as a result you would not keep him attracted over the long run.  (Remember, your goal is not just to get him back, but to keep him back.)
You see, even if your ex did give in and took you back in response to your desperate begging, it would be under his terms, which means there would be no guarantee he wouldn’t dump you again later when some other woman came into his life.  So break off all contact, and get up to speed using this manual to become a women with power.

Only then should you allow him to talk with you again.

Cutting off contact accomplishes three things:
1.     It demonstrates that right now you’re unfazed by the break-up.  This will arouse your ex’s curiosity about how you could change your mind so drastically.  As you’ll soon find out, this emotion of curiosity will be a powerful tool for you.

2.     It gives you time to put your life back together, learn from your mistakes, and work on what I call the “New You Keys.” (You’ll learn how to do all of this in my book)

3.    It makes him receptive to re-opening communication with you – but this time on your terms, not his.

Again, you’re going to cut him off from direct communication with you for an entire seven days.  It will be a complete radio silence.  He won’t hear a peep from you for a full week.

Right now it’s Day 1 of your self-improvement journey.  Three weeks from now, you’ll be able to look in the mirror and see a…. want to keep reading what it take to get your boyfriend back in 7 days, Guaranteed?
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